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Dear Self - Whitehood

Dear Self


Dear Self



It's okay to feel broken sometimes. Having you heartbroken by the person who does not appreciate you or see beyond your flaws are never worth crying for. You will obviously make mistakes, but these mistakes make you who you are, and without them, you can never be as strong as a person.


There will be times when you think “he or she is the one”; yeah, there will be many times when you think they are the one. These are just untrue thoughts when you are in love while disregarding their red flags. You will feel numb, trapped, and unable to express yourself—these are significant signs that you need to run away from that person because they are destructive to your life. Losing them then could be compared to the world’s worst feeling, but remember, with every obstacle comes a rainbow. And from that rainbow, you will connect with your mom on a deeper level. She will be there for you sincerely, and she will care for your problems like no one else will. She will tell you the ugly truth for your benefit. Most importantly, she will be there for you at your absolute worst. Being friends with your mom, and knowing you have your mother there for you as a mom and as a friend is one of the best feelings!

You learn to love yourself more after getting your heart broken because it makes you a stronger person after being crushed a few times, and eventually, you will get back up. It will give you the confidence to open your heart to a whole new level, which will allow you to feel vulnerable. The vulnerability can be good sometimes because it will allow others to explore your heart at its best. Heartbreak makes you realize how incredibly strong you are, so use this lesson to gain confidence, to open your heart, and don’t be afraid to love again.

You don’t need to try too hard to impress people; when you find the right one, they will like you for you and see past your perfection. This means wearing your most comfy sweater in winter.

When you find your high school best friends who make you the happiest person and who enhance your weirdness, stay connected, and do not ever let them go because they made you love being yourself.


"𝒲𝒽ℯ𝓃 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒻ℯℯ𝓁 𝓁ℴ𝓈𝓉 𝒾𝓃 𝒶 𝓇ℯ𝓁𝒶𝓉𝒾ℴ𝓃𝓈𝒽𝒾𝓅, 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝓀 𝒶𝒷ℴ𝓊𝓉 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓅𝒾𝓃ℯ𝓈𝓈 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒻ℯ𝓁𝓉 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝓎ℴ𝓊𝓇 𝒷ℯ𝓈𝓉 𝒻𝓇𝒾ℯ𝓃𝒹𝓈—𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉’𝓈 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓅𝒾𝓃ℯ𝓈𝓈 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒹ℯ𝓈ℯ𝓇𝓋ℯ 𝓌𝒽ℯ𝓃 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒶𝓇ℯ 𝒾𝓃 𝒶 𝓇ℯ𝓁𝒶𝓉𝒾ℴ𝓃𝓈𝒽𝒾𝓅. 𝒦ℯℯ𝓅 𝓉𝒽ℯ𝓂 𝒷ℯ𝒸𝒶𝓊𝓈ℯ 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃ℯℯ𝒹 𝓉𝒽ℯ𝓂 ℴ𝓃 𝓎ℴ𝓊𝓇 𝓌ℯ𝒹𝒹𝒾𝓃ℊ 𝒹𝒶𝓎. 𝒮ℴ𝓂ℯ𝓉𝒾𝓂ℯ𝓈, 𝓌𝒽ℯ𝓃 𝓁𝒾𝒻ℯ ℊ𝒾𝓋ℯ𝓈 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓁𝓁ℯ𝓃ℊℯ𝓈, 𝒶𝓁𝓌𝒶𝓎𝓈 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝓀 𝓅ℴ𝓈𝒾𝓉𝒾𝓋ℯ𝓁𝓎 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒶𝒷ℴ𝓊𝓉 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝓅ℯℴ𝓅𝓁ℯ 𝓌𝒽ℴ 𝓂𝒶𝓀ℯ 𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓅𝓎 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒾𝓂𝒶ℊ𝒾𝓃ℯ 𝓁𝒾𝒻ℯ 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽ℴ𝓊𝓉 𝓉𝒽ℯ𝓂. 𝒴ℯ𝒶𝒽, 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉’𝓈 𝓃ℴ 𝒻𝓊𝓃. " .. 𝒻𝒶𝒾𝓏𝒶𝓃 

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